Hi Confusedmonky13,
Unfortunately there is no way around it, but some have been able to get their accounts back after getting in touch with eBay and complying with their requirements (although, this does not happen all the time)
Circumventing your suspension by opening or starting another account under a false name would be useless, eBay has ways of linking accounts.
You might want to check out this Link hidden: Login to view, there are lots of really helpful tips.
Hope this helps!