Hi blues100,
SexToyClub.com seems to have pretty much everything you'll need. They have a wide range of products for you to choose from and a relatively low drop shipping fee. They accept safe payment methods as well.
They have a 5 start rating and one review left by one of our members on their supplier's profile page, maybe you can check it out and probably send him a PM. Here's the link:
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Hope this helps. Cheers :)